Not every man or woman you date will be the love of your life & last forever. If you are really planning on making a long term commitment or getting hitched, you better make sure that he/she is the right one.
Given below are some tips to judge whether your partner is the right one for you;
1. If he/she complains when you are out with your friends
Sometimes your boyfriend/girlfriend wants to be the only person in your life and this is the recipe for disaster.
2. Not supportive
If he/she doesn’t support you in any of your life decisions, do you think it is worth being called as a “Partner”?
3. Very moody
If mood swings are very common, it is extremely difficult to handle such personalities. Every now and then, you might have to spend time in taking care of moods, rather than spending some good time.
4. If your boyfriend/girlfriend is in contact with his/her ex
You are lying if you say it doesn’t make you uncomfortable. Moreover, when you confront him/her, you will get just one answer i.e. “You are being possessive”. This shows that your better half isn’t ready to settle down.
5. The comparison
Sometimes, your boyfriend/girlfriend might tend to compare you with his/her ex and this shouldn’t be acceptable at all.
6. If he/she cheats on you again and again
to trust him/her again? A BIG NO! It’s better to end up the relation
7. Nagging and irritating
What if you are constantly irritated? Would you like it? What if you are constantly asked to call up every 5 minutes or meet every hour? No one prefers such obsessed lovers.
8. Too much aggressiveness
No one appreciates too much aggressiveness. If he/she doesn’t know the definition of being polite, then you have probably made the wrong choice.
9. If your boyfriend/girlfriend constantly dares to flirt with your friend in front of you
You would like your BF/GF to be good friends with your best friend, but you wouldn’t like him/her to go close to your bestie and start flirting with him/her. This shows that your BF/GF isn’t trustworthy.
10. Keeps on changing you
Sometimes, your partner might have too many expectations from you & this might lead to complete change in your personality. Are you sure you want to keep this relation with someone who doesn’t allow you to be yourself?
Your best option is to move on and find the healthy relationship you deserve if your partner exhibits any of these signs. Don’t fall a victim to your need to nurture and rescue a damaged woman/man. The right woman/man will be the one who has already focused on her/his issues to become the woman/man you really want and need.
