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This Cab Driver’s Post About Women Is Going Viral! MUST READ As It Will Surely Change Your Mindset!

This Cab Driver's Post About Women Is Going Viral! MUST READ As It Will Surely Change Your Mindset! RVCJ Media


This Cab Driver’s Post About Women Is Going Viral! MUST READ As It Will Surely Change Your Mindset!

No matter whether it is a big and modern city or a small town, the safety of woman has been an alarming issue everywhere, isn’t it? The society just has 1 thing to do i.e. blame the lifestyle and clothes of the woman and hold her responsible for everything. How far do you think all this is correct? It is high time that people change their mentality about females;

This Cab Driver's Post About Women Is Going Viral! MUST READ As It Will Surely Change Your Mindset! RVCJ Media

However, amidst all this, a cab driver, Sahil Tomar who has a completely different opinion on women. He says that it is not the women who have to change but it is we who have to change ourselves; you will definitely agree with Sahil’s mindset.

He had come to Delhi in search of a good job; he shares his experience as to how he used to feel very awkward to face outspoken Delhi girls or the ones with short clothes. It is that time that he realized that his mentality was wrong.

Sahil pens down a strong open letter and you MUST read it!

Here it is:-

My dear brothers and sisters,

I am just a cab driver who neither has the education nor the life experience to preach or give lessons to anyone. But I do have a message, which I wish to send across through this letter.

I came to Delhi almost a decade ago with dreams of improving my life. I was then a 22-year-old boy who had never stepped out of his village in Uttar Pradesh’s Faizabad district. My father, who was a farmer and a seasonal laborer, always stressed the importance of education and toiled hard to give the best possible opportunities to my three siblings and me.

But, I was never good at studies. I failed my exams several times and repeated a few classes before I somehow managed to pass my class 10 board exams. After that, I tried my hand at several things — farming, mason work, sitting idle and ogling at women in the village.

I was 20-years-old when I learned to drive and my father finally sent me to Delhi to find a job. Delhi, however, was not the city of my dreams. People would just walk past me and not notice me at all. From early morning to late night, women and men roamed around without any inhibitions.

When I started driving in Delhi, I used to feel offended by how outspoken women in the city were. They would shout at me for missing a turn, and argue for change and call me tum and tu. I used to consider them ill-mannered and resent how their behavior was in total contrast to how things were back in my village. There, a boy and a girl still cannot walk together and women do not dare remove their ghunghat, let alone boss men around.

I was scandalized and was hit by a huge culture shock in Delhi. Getting into fights with a man is different, but getting belittled by a woman seemed insulting. Sometimes during late-night pickups, female passengers wearing short clothes would get in my car and sit comfortably on the front seat. It used to make me uncomfortable.

But that was the old me. As I grew in the city and gained some maturity, I gradually became broad minded. You get used to it also. Most importantly, I realized it’s not the women who need to change. It’s me who had to. I had to let go of my shallow thinking.

I found a trick to adjust to this modern environment that I would like to share with my brothers. Think of it this way – would you feel awkward if a man sat comfortably on the front seat and talked to you? Would you raise an eyebrow seeing a man smoke or him being in minimal clothes? No. So, why make such a big issue if a woman does the same things? A woman is as normal as a man.

The situation has gotten worse for us ever since a cab driver raped a female passenger sometime at the end of 2014. I do not disagree that some drivers who have just come from villages and have not seen modernity would get excited and do gandi harkat (bad things) with women. But I plead, not every driver is the same as that culprit. I am not that type, for sure.

I want to tell my fellow cab drivers that our job is not only about dropping people to their destination and earning money. Each time we get a new booking from a customer, that person – be it a man or woman – signs an unwritten pact of safety and security with us. And we must be fully conscious of this and behave accordingly to set the right example. We have to win the faith of our passengers, especially the women who are so scared of us these days that they click pictures of our car and ourselves to share with their families for safety purposes.

As drivers, we must behave like ‘guardians’ of the roads – dropping a woman to her house or where ever she is headed to. Every journey that we safely complete is a badge of honor that we take back home to our families with a smile.

It is time to change our thinking towards women, don’t you think so? Do share your views in our comments section below.

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