1. Do you fight a lot with your partner?
2. And if you do, then what is the main reason behind your fights?
3. Is it something that can be sorted out and if not, then why?
4. Do you feel that your emotional needs are being ignored by your partner?
If that is the case, then it means that your relationship isn’t heading in the right direction and you partner doesn’t understand your emotional needs. Therefore, both of you need to make some serious changes in your relationship.
5. Do you feel safe/secure with your partner?
6. Are you comfortable in expressing yourself and your feelings in your relationship?
7. What do you want out of this relationship?
8. How does your partner treat other people? Is he harsh towards them in any manner?
9. Do you feel that there is anything your partner seriously needs to change about himself/herself?
10. Do you respect your partner and vice-versa?
11. Are you emotionally or physically frustrated in this relationship?
12. Do you feel that your previous relationship(s) were better than your present one? In what way?
13. Do you feel that you are not one of your partner’s priorities?
14. Do you somewhere feel that maybe you are being used by your partner?
This shows some serious trust issues in the relationship.
15. Did you have to change yourself to bring peace in your relationship but your partner didn’t?
16. Are you staying in your relationship out of guilt?
17. Do you feel that only you’re the only one making efforts and he/she isn’t?
18. Does your relationship challenge you to get out of your comfort zone?
19. Does your partner help you to become a better person?
20. Are you truly happy in this relationship?
